Thanks for all your kind replies, I really appreciate it
And I'm so sorry for not getting back to you earlier- Recently I've been working till gone seven, get home near eight and have been working weekends too. But i know many of us are like me in having to do this- long hours we dont like doing, but it houses our family and puts food on the table

With a baby girl and a little boy, I'm very lucky to have such a great misses if I'm honest. So BBQ isn't always at the top of my priorities. I'm very sorry if I don't manage to get back to you chaps as soon as I would like.
Saturday night I tend to stay up late, and Mrs. Damo let's me have a lie-in Sunday morning, so here I am
After the black chicken disaster, I had it in my mind that the Weber kettle was rubbish- how can such an expensive charcoal BBQ not have a grate you can raise and lower, when a 30 quid job from homebase has this?
I tried to cook steak on it, since that's just what you do on a BBQ, or so it seemed. And it was ok, not great, but ok. But I wasn't a fan of steak anyway- my parents always had their steak well done, and hence so did I. If steak was a sport, then it seemed to me that well done steak was like a nice and pleasant game of snooker, whilst medium rare was akin to some sort of extreme sport like jumping out of a plane whilst using your underpants as a parachute.
A couple of days before I opened this thread, I think I finally cracked steak.
A bit of background, we got the Weber e310 Spirit gas BBQ last year at the end of August, the missus found it for 300 quid at B&Q. She knew I'd been complaining about the Weber kettle- it's the tool, not the bloke (me) who's holding the tool that's at fault, at least that what I said
So I got an 8oz sirloin steak from ASDA- don't laugh, it was only four quid but thick enough, about an inch, but not too thick that I needed to use indirect heat. I preheated the weber 310 to 'bloody hot, thermometer at max,' over fifteen mins, opened the lid, stuck it on then closed the lid. 45 secs. Open lid. Rotate 45 degrees, close lid, another 1 min 15 secs. Open lid, turned over, close lid. 2 mins. Remove then rest for five mins. By far the best steak I have ever had

And probably the first one I have truly enjoyed. Succulent, juicy, delicious. Tried ribeye steak the next day- even better- in fact much much better- Mrs Damo looked sceptical, but on trying said "delicious, melts in your mouth".
I now love steak!